Some Things I Wish Everyone Knew About Grief 2

Lesson 4 of 5 July 20, 2023

Jeff Jenkins presented a candid lesson on grief, beginning with his own experience after his wife's death. He recounted moving from his longtime home in Flower Mound, Texas, to temporary housing and eventually a year of living in hotels, describing both the hardships and unexpected conveniences of that lifestyle. Jeff used his story to illustrate that grief is a deeply personal journey, differing from person to person, and warned against the temptation to compare one's progress with others. He introduced the Jenkins Institute's free resource, *Beyond the Valley of Death*, encouraging participants to claim copies for themselves or to share with anyone coping with loss. Jeff emphasized two key biblical truths: that God is near the broken‑hearted (Psalm 34:18) and that even Jesus wept (John 11:35), providing spiritual comfort amid sorrow. The class concluded with practical advice on how to support grieving friends and family, urging the congregation to listen, avoid prescriptive advice, and extend Christ‑centered compassion. Overall, the teaching highlighted the individuality of grief, the necessity of grace in the grieving process, and the hope found in Scripture and community support.