Rules for Happy Living - Lesson 8
Teacher
Lesson Summary
In Lesson 8 of the Rules for Happy Living series, Larry Johnson continued the quarter’s focus on trusting God while resolving conflict. He reminded the class that true trust involves a firm belief in God’s character and promises, and that believers must apply divine wisdom rather than their own natural instincts. The teacher revisited the three M’s—Motive (reconciliation), Mindset (humility), and Methods (affirming the person’s worth)—and illustrated how these principles align with biblical teaching. The class examined key passages, especially Romans 12:18‑21, which calls believers to live peaceably, leave vengeance to God, and overcome evil with good. Larry compared this to Proverbs 24 and 25, explaining the imagery of “heaping burning coals” as a gentle shaming that prompts repentance. He also referenced Lamentations 3:30 and 1 Thessalonians 5:15 to show the consistent New Testament call to forgo retaliation. Finally, the lesson turned to Romans 13:1‑7, reminding believers to respect God‑ordained authority while continuing to act in love. Throughout, Larry emphasized that Christians are ambassadors of reconciliation, urging the congregation to choose kindness over revenge and to trust God’s ultimate justice.
Key Scriptures
If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all, beloved. Never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, 'Vengeance is mine, I will repay,' says the Lord. To the contrary, if your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him something to drink, for by doing so you will heap burning coals on his head. Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
If your enemy is hungry, give him bread to eat. If he is thirsty, give him water to drink. For you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you.
Do not gloat when your enemy falls. When he stumbles, do not let your heart rejoice, for the Lord will see and disapprove and turn his wrath away from him.