Forgiveness_ What to do When You've been Offended

Lesson 4 of 9 November 20, 2017

The teacher began by emphasizing the extraordinary depth of God’s love and forgiveness, setting the stage for a discussion on the demanding yet essential Christian duty to forgive. He first examined Matthew 5:23‑24, highlighting how personal offense can become a barrier to worship, both corporate and private, and underscored the necessity of reconciliation before offering gifts to God. Next, the class moved to Matthew 18:21‑35, where Jesus answered Peter’s question about the frequency of forgiveness by declaring it should be limitless—"seventy times seven." The teacher detailed the parable of the unforgiving servant, illustrating the vertical aspect of God’s forgiveness toward us and the horizontal call to extend that mercy to others. He explained how the unforgiving slave’s failure to show the same compassion led to severe judgment, reinforcing that true forgiveness must be both sincere and unbounded. The lesson concluded with practical guidance for those who have been offended, encouraging them to pursue reconciliation, trust God’s timing, and embody Christ’s gracious example.

Matthew 5:23-24

Matthew 18:21-35

seven times seven or 70 times seven