Rules for Happy Living - Lesson 10
Teacher
Lesson Summary
The class began by reviewing the twelve Biblical rules for happy living, focusing on expressing love, generosity, positivity, daily prayer, and wise stewardship of time. The teacher then shifted to an in‑depth examination of Matthew 18:15‑17, explaining the step‑by‑step process for resolving interpersonal conflict within the church—private confrontation, involving one or two witnesses, and finally presenting the issue to the congregation. Emphasis was placed on using credible evidence, affirming the offender with respect, and seeking repentance rather than revenge. Further, the teacher connected the New Testament principle to Old Testament practice by reading Deuteronomy 17, illustrating the biblical requirement of multiple witnesses before judgment. He warned against misusing the process for personal vindication and highlighted the importance of trusting God’s ultimate control over outcomes that cannot be proven. The session concluded with a call to apply these principles deliberately, to protect the sanctity of church discipline, and to build healthier, Christ‑centered relationships. Throughout the lesson, the central message reinforced that true conflict resolution seeks restoration, honors God‑given authority, and reflects the love and humility of Jesus, fostering a community where believers can live joyfully and in unity.
Key Scriptures
If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.
Do not admit a charge against an elder except on evidence of two or three witnesses. As for those who persist in sin, rebuke them in the presence of all so that the rest may stand in fear. In the presence of God and of Jesus Christ and of the elect angels, I charge you to keep these rules without prejudging, doing nothing from partiality.